How To Relate: Part 1-

Someone is walking on bare feet, do you walk up to the person and say,

"Put on shoes now, so you don't hurt your feet"

Or

Do you ask,
"Please, why are you walking on bare feet?"

Your choice of words reveals who you are and also reveals the level of your EQ(emotional intelligence).

One seems caring, but without knowledge. To help, ask questions. When knowledge is gained about a situation, then the right remedy is prescribed. Even medical doctors don't just give drugs first, they investigate with labs, tests, physical examinations, and also listening to the patient. We learn everyday. Love seeks to know. So, love and watch your relationships blossom.

- Martha I. Iyen

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